redlipsandfishnets
Don’t get too high and mighty, ladies. Don’t step out of line. Don’t do anything to upset or disappoint men who feel entitled to your time, bodies, affection or attention. Your bared body can always be used as a weapon against you. You bared body can always be used to shame and humiliate you. Your bared body is at once desired and loathed.
Roxane Gay: The Great Naked Celebrity Photo Leak of 2014 is just the beginning (via guardian)

I wrote this

(via roxanegay)

Don’t read the fucking comment thread on this piece tho…I was only thirty seconds into them before being seized by the urge to bludgeon myself to death with the nearest object because i don’t want to live on this planet anymore…

stripperina

femmepireradical asked:

Do you use glitter when you dance? (I know that's a personal preference as glitter is the herpes of the craft world) And if so, what's your favorite glitter application method? Every stripper or burlesque dancer I ask has a different favored way and I love it.

stripperina answered:

I have one perfume that contains a little glitter, but other than that I don’t.  It’s generally a bad idea.

I’ve worked in six different clubs and I’ve never seen a stripper who applies loose glitter. I see eyeshadow with glitter in it from time to time, but I honestly don’t know how this became a stereotype..

roxanegay
Don’t get too high and mighty, ladies. Don’t step out of line. Don’t do anything to upset or disappoint men who feel entitled to your time, bodies, affection or attention. Your bared body can always be used as a weapon against you. You bared body can always be used to shame and humiliate you. Your bared body is at once desired and loathed.
clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead

jenny-hello asked:

How do you collect money at the end of a dance? If customers just leave tips on the stage is it weird to have to pick up all the loose bills after a performance?

stripperina answered:

Is it weird for a waiter to pick money up off a table?

clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead:

dominoinla:

All you little thots asking dumbass questions like this seriously make my head hurt. So glad my blog’s not popular enough to get pendejadas like this in my ask box. I can only hope the people who ask questions like these are like 15 and clueless.

Remember when someone was like “it’s so humiliating that the DANCERS have to clean the POLE after each other!”

So it’s not just customers who turn off their brains when they walk in the club, the very notion of the club overloads people’s brains & then you get a patient stripper & they’re like “so you’re not in stasis when I’m not watching you… How does work??!!!!???”

I WISH my blog was more popular so ignorant ppl would send me asks and then I could be mean to them..

ellestanger

pensulliwen asked:

Sorry if this question is too personal in nature, feel free to ignore/shame me if that is the case. I know this was a while back, but what was it like going through pregnancy as a stripper? At what point did you take a leave of absence?

ellestanger answered:

No problem, thank you for the delicately worded inquiry.

My pregnancy was planned, and I wanted to work as late as possible without showing.

I conceived June 10th, 2011, and stripped until September 18th, 2011. (My 24th birthday!)

This made me approx 17 weeks pregnant.

I was able to invert (pull myself upside down with my arms) the entire time.

I was not showing, and didn’t look visibly pregnant to strangers until about 24 weeks.

There’s nothing that feels much more empowering than dancing an invigorating stage set, than strutting quietly to the dressing room to vomit.

*Wipes mouth, swishes with mouthwash*

Strutting back upstairs to give some lap dances, and make polite, sober conversation, I calculated what baby wares I could now purchase.

*Big smile*

lascifrass
teddyandtea:


time-is-a-many-splendored-thing:

douglasmurphy:

rainbowcoffin:

c-h-0-w:

nightwife:

Always reblog

Woah

well he really should have worn more protective clothing if he didn’t want that to happensounds to me like he was asking for it

Are we really sure he was actually shot and decapitated? Idk, sounds like something he would’ve made up. Guys make false decapitation accusations all the time, you know. 

If he didn’t want to be decapitated, he shouldn’t have worn a shirt that showed off his neck

I mean, it’s in a woman’s nature to decapitate and shoot men. Men just have to be more careful.

teddyandtea:

time-is-a-many-splendored-thing:

douglasmurphy:

rainbowcoffin:

c-h-0-w:

nightwife:

Always reblog

Woah

well he really should have worn more protective clothing if he didn’t want that to happen
sounds to me like he was asking for it

Are we really sure he was actually shot and decapitated? Idk, sounds like something he would’ve made up. Guys make false decapitation accusations all the time, you know. 

If he didn’t want to be decapitated, he shouldn’t have worn a shirt that showed off his neck

I mean, it’s in a woman’s nature to decapitate and shoot men. Men just have to be more careful.