goddamnyourebeautiful
Girls are trained to say, ‘I wrote this, but it’s probably really stupid.’ Well, no, you wouldn’t write a novel if you thought it was really stupid. Men are much more comfortable going, ‘I wrote this book because I have a unique perspective that the world needs to hear.’ Girls are taught from the age of seven that if you get a compliment, you don’t go, ‘Thank you’, you go, ‘No, you’re insane.’
Lena Dunham, in an interview with The Guardian (x)
clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead
clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead:

summerstinanesthesia:

shadowrat420:

jackthemother:

lydieslittlefamily:

lightsharpnesssong:

jenova-amaranth:

fullten:

dollycoquetry:

fullten:

A lot of dudes think women dress slutty for them, but honestly if men weren’t such fucking animals I would dress 300000% more slutty then I do now. You people ruin everything.  
I wanna wear this shit outside god damn it. 

Oh my god SO TRUE. I would constantly wear thigh highs and short skirts and underbust corsets because I look so fucking good. God forbid women like their OWN bodies, too.

For real !! like 90 % of my fucking wardrobe now is just for cam cause it’s too sexy to wear in public. Fucking bullshit.  I use to wear thigh highs with garters with shorts a lot but I got sooo many comments. Fucking… people. You literally just saw the tops of my thighs. But all the dudes are like ‘Why wear that if you don’t want attention???’ cause i look fine as hell and I don’t give a shit about some fucking random broke ass dudes on the corner. 

I can’t even express how much this describes my feelings. Bitch I wear my corsets and my fishnets and my heels the size you wish your dick was because they make me feel fucking fabulous, not because I want you to tell me how much you’d like to “smash” me.

Heels the size you wish your dick was.

Omg this

This this a million times this

A few points from a male perspective on this. 1, if this is how you truly feel, act that way in the bar/club/social gathering. That means dont pay attention to the duche that makes cat calls, and thinks a few drinks is the admission cost to your panties, try spending time with the shy guy, that creepy stare might not be that creepy. 2, if your with a man that treats you that way, DUMP HIM, 3, once you dump the loser, go on a date with the “like a brother” thats always there for you. Hes probably just waiting for you to realize hes worth a chance, but doesnt want to pressure you about it. Yall bitch about being treated like a piece of meat, untill you hit the bar and expect every man in there to buy you drinks cause you wiggled your ass. Make up your minds, and men will act accordingly. If shivery is dead, its because women killed it.

What’s your advice for gay women who want to dress like that but don’t want to get creeped on by men? Do I also have an obligation to flirt with shy men who only seem creepy because of my biases? Do I have to have sex with friendzoned guys even though I’m gay? So I can wear sexy things in public without attracting unwanted male attention?

"A few points from a male perspective""Try the creepy guy in the corner" "Try the nice guy""Women killed shivery"

Not no mention, no one was fucking talking about attracting a certain type of guy, they were describing how they want to dress TO MAKE THEMSELVES FEEL GOOD, and I fail to see how that has anything to do with catering to the needs of introverted corner-dwellers. Oh and women receiving negative attention from men has nothing to do with what type of guy *you* perceive they’re giving attention to. No one cares about your input, go home.

clarawebbwillcutoffyourhead:

summerstinanesthesia:

shadowrat420:

jackthemother:

lydieslittlefamily:

lightsharpnesssong:

jenova-amaranth:

fullten:

dollycoquetry:

fullten:

A lot of dudes think women dress slutty for them, but honestly if men weren’t such fucking animals I would dress 300000% more slutty then I do now. You people ruin everything.  

I wanna wear this shit outside god damn it. 

Oh my god SO TRUE. I would constantly wear thigh highs and short skirts and underbust corsets because I look so fucking good. God forbid women like their OWN bodies, too.

For real !! like 90 % of my fucking wardrobe now is just for cam cause it’s too sexy to wear in public. Fucking bullshit.  I use to wear thigh highs with garters with shorts a lot but I got sooo many comments. Fucking… people. You literally just saw the tops of my thighs. But all the dudes are like ‘Why wear that if you don’t want attention???’ cause i look fine as hell and I don’t give a shit about some fucking random broke ass dudes on the corner. 

I can’t even express how much this describes my feelings. Bitch I wear my corsets and my fishnets and my heels the size you wish your dick was because they make me feel fucking fabulous, not because I want you to tell me how much you’d like to “smash” me.

Heels the size you wish your dick was.

Omg this

This this a million times this

A few points from a male perspective on this. 1, if this is how you truly feel, act that way in the bar/club/social gathering. That means dont pay attention to the duche that makes cat calls, and thinks a few drinks is the admission cost to your panties, try spending time with the shy guy, that creepy stare might not be that creepy. 2, if your with a man that treats you that way, DUMP HIM, 3, once you dump the loser, go on a date with the “like a brother” thats always there for you. Hes probably just waiting for you to realize hes worth a chance, but doesnt want to pressure you about it.
Yall bitch about being treated like a piece of meat, untill you hit the bar and expect every man in there to buy you drinks cause you wiggled your ass. Make up your minds, and men will act accordingly.
If shivery is dead, its because women killed it.

What’s your advice for gay women who want to dress like that but don’t want to get creeped on by men? Do I also have an obligation to flirt with shy men who only seem creepy because of my biases? Do I have to have sex with friendzoned guys even though I’m gay? So I can wear sexy things in public without attracting unwanted male attention?

"A few points from a male perspective"
"Try the creepy guy in the corner"
"Try the nice guy"
"Women killed shivery"

Not no mention, no one was fucking talking about attracting a certain type of guy, they were describing how they want to dress TO MAKE THEMSELVES FEEL GOOD, and I fail to see how that has anything to do with catering to the needs of introverted corner-dwellers. Oh and women receiving negative attention from men has nothing to do with what type of guy *you* perceive they’re giving attention to. No one cares about your input, go home.

3liza

misfitreindeer:

3liza:

note to people who have Bra Probs: you are probably wearing the wrong size and should maybe do some careful measurements at home (some people recommend getting “professionally fitted” at victoria’s secret or w/e but lol@ the idea of letting a stranger touch…

I was wearing the wrong size FOR LIKE EVER bc at victorias secret they would always measure me as 36C. Then one day I went to nordstrom and the girl was like oh no honey, you’re a 32E. Thanks for the seven years of back pain and double-boob, Victorias Secret!